When
was the last time you thought you were inspired by someone in life? Or have you
ever dreamed of being an inspiration to someone in life? When was the last time
you thought that you could play a tiny role in other's happiness? Or have you
ever taken an initiative to boost up someone who was in a terrible situation?
When was the last time you came out of your comfort zone to explore things? Your last travel made with your loved ones? Your last movie with your parents? Your last volunteered action? When was your most recent time when you
learnt some new art or practicing super Yoga? When was your last time you
made a point to talk to yourself to understand you better!!
With
the New Year 2016 just began, With so much happening around us, I wanted to
post my thoughts which can reflect to get answers to the those questions. Let's welcome this year with fresh beginning indulged in good deeds!
Ask
someone on their resolution list for the year, the common answer of “Not
to make any resolution” beats up the top in the chart. Indeed its up to an
individual to make his/her resolute LIST. However one among the list can be practiced and preached. Good or bad, sweet or sour, life has its own ups and
downs with its own charm. Let us begin this year with great hope and
confidence, with the trust that YOU can be a change in this world, your ideas can create actions, your tiny assistance to someone can make a huge difference, appreciate the good in someone and the list goes on.
Here are few of my sketches of thoughts which can paint your 365 days!! I will be most happy if at-least one these 37 views of mine is taken into your plate.
- Enjoy the moonlight with your parents over a dinner. Give a hug and be grateful for them for what they have done for you all along, of course they are your pillars of strengths!
- Appreciate the good qualities in your spouse, give your time and attention to him/her, the love and care you show is the most deserving thing you could give your spouse. Praise more and criticize less, you will never get back these days!
- Have a room for your children’s ambitions and goals. Go into their space and teach them life’s good values and principles, indeed your life becomes complete when they achieve great heights in life :)
- Allow your kids to grow up and be in their foot. Hold and walk beside them. Don’t judge them by ranks, judge them by the attitude and talent within them, Spend with them happily and enjoy the moments with them. This is the costliest thing with No Price Tag!
- Teachers play an important role in bringing up the children’s education. A black board puts a good foundation in a kid’s career. Practice teaching not alone theoretically but practically too
- Don’t be a hard worker, be a smart worker. Not all last benchers are losers and not all first benchers are achievers J it's the Kid's interest and curiosity to learn and pursue his career
- Avoid procrastination of your activities both at your personal and professional front, there can be no regrets once you lose it
- Welcome the opinions and beliefs of your well wishers. Take some time to think about it before you step out to make a decision
- Plan for a surprise gifts to your loved ones, make them feel that you are most important to them, make them think that you value their relationship the most. Good things comes in surprising packages!
- Trying hands on new stuffs and exploring the things around. Get out of your comfort zone!
- Volunteer for a cause and see the glow of happiness which helping hands can bring. As said, a candle does not lose anything when it lights up another candle!
- Make friends, who can subtract your sorrows and double your happiness
- Listen to good music which rejuvenates both your mind and body. It's good to shake your legs with the beats once in a while especially at festive season!
- Follow a periodic way at your career, plan your tasks, be a role model for your team, be a motivating lead and a good manager liked by all! Team work is a key to success in any organization
- Have a goal towards your life, strive hard to meet your ambitions
- Take a step towards your dream interest and have a strong belief that you can achieve it one day. Have a dream for yourself and work towards it, keep trying
- Understand the failures and the situations in it, you will definitely identify a great inner strength within you during that period
- Learn to overcome your problems with a great courage and simple solutions
- Appreciating yourself with a "self pat on back" when you taste success.Give a spot award to yourself when you think you have achieved something. Sounds interesting right?
- Experiencing the good times ahead and cherishing every moment around you
- Noticing the peace around the surroundings and staying clam at peak situations. The calmer you stay, the better it is for your heart and blood pressure
- Avoid as much as conflicts and arguments for tiny pieces, those kill your time. Try to be in others shoes!
- Take up a sport this year, dedicate 15 mins of your precious time to meditate and think about nothing. Doesn’t it sound appealing?
- Sleep well; take a nap when needed the most. Letting go of your worries for a short period is a huge benefit.
- Pick a hobby. Painting, photography, writing, gardening whatever it may be, making a time for the little things will go a long way in helping you ease out the bigger issues
- Practice a good diet and stay healthy. When you are at a good health, you are considered as the richest person in the world
- Drink plenty of water which nourishes your skin. Your physical appearance grooms your attitude at best!
- Donate food to the hunger who are starving without a drop of water, volunteer to give the primary benefits to the needy, spend some time at orphanage and old aged home, they are waiting for your presence by some means
- Learning the art of thanking every day which is a destiny’s gift. You are blessed today!
- Be a source of inspiration to someone in this world
- Be honest and trust yourself. Make more love and be kind towards your dear ones
- Bold is always beautiful, take a step on your courage and speak out your views
- Let's not take stress on what we can't control. Everything has a reason behind it and of course its going to be alright, may be not today but eventually
- Put your prayers to God daily, if you’re a Theist (believer of existence of god)
- Do good and be good, be nice, for definitely you would get better results in life
- Always find time for the things that make you to feel alive and keep going, not everyone are blessed to be in this world, so be happy for it
- Lighten up your day with a great optimistic attitude. Life is all about passing each day with courage, hope and faith, definitely good things are at your door step! :)
Aim
for happiness with your list of resolutions which can be a success mantra in your
life!A fresh start has an infinite possibilities!
Start
creating your memories in a clean slate. Write your failures in sand which
vanishes away in due course, and keep writing your success in a rock which stays
with you where ever you go. Do your job and wait for success to knock at your
door, don’t run behind it!
Life
is about YOU and YOUR perspective of looking at it!! You are the best judge to
decide it. Start on and rock on this year. May all of you have a memorable year
to cherish this year. Have a blessed year :)
As the saying goes - "Learn from Yesterday, Live for Today, Hope for Tomorrow"
With
all this, my resolution for the year is to explore and write more with a hope
that it gets benefited to someone. I owe this list to my parents and sister,
who stood beside me on all of my writings!
As always you don’t lose anything by reading this, definitely gain a pinch of conviction in you. Of course writings can make wonders :)
Disclaimer – These are purely my views to see life from a different stand. Any real life
scenarios pointing to any of these or any one is purely coincidental.
